Hi.. I am back almost a little over a year where i had last left in April,2015...
I am back on my writing and sitting on desk reviewing the year gone by. Give me shivers down the spine as I review the year gone by.... i had left the last writing on the note is it the end of 4th love story or the beginning of the eternal love story....
I believe love is eternal.. we all are made up of love.. the mother's love for her child, the dog's love for her master... similarly this entire creation is made of love....
when we are in love , all we can see is love everywhere.... these feelings of angerness, jealousy, greed etc are not a part of us... thats what i realized in the past year gone by... with both ups and downs and made me strong from inside and tested my skills how can i come out of any bad situations....
Well the story continues from there.... I got married on 29th april,2015 with Meenal Thakur (Though 3 days to go for the marriage, i was still unsure whether i had made the right decision or not ). I was never close to this lady ever neither emotionally nor in anyway else.. i always felt that i am doing some sort of compromise in my life with this girl as her family always used to pressurize us emotionally and their demands never finished..... i never thought i knew either the girl or thier family till the marriage which was the biggest wrong decision i had made in my life.. i should have known the girl and the family background before making any decision of my life.
It affected my life and parents life.. everyone's life but brought with it many positive lessons and my own unknown capabilities that i was not confident of earlier. In a way, made me more confident. many people would surrender to the situation but somewhere deep inside me i never gave up. These people and situations come in life to teach us a lesson and to have a more of a broad vision than narrow mindedness.
Within 3 months of marriage, the girl and her family had started pressurizing me and my family to have a kid and after every sessions be it at the honeymoon or at home, the girl always used to tell her mother what happened. I feel the main reason for dissolvement of my marriage was her mother. If she had been supportive mother in law, she would have never gone against the marriage.
All the material comforts and emotionally stability was given to Meenal, but she on the footsteps of her mother, used to have just one thing on her mind, that she wants to have children.I always used to feel pressurized due to which never used to enjoy the sessions and used to blame me that i am impotent. (Though she herself was a doctor and without any fact finding and knowledge publically informed everyone like this ). A doctor cum wife should always support her husband and give time as it is not like a photostat machine that we have put paper here and the result is instaneously. I believe this is natural process which one should enjoy and while enjoying one can have it not forcefully have it starting from day 1 of our night.
Well as u must be reading above, my marriage ultimately dissolved and what started afterthat was a serial full of drama, blamegames, high tones, police, court cases etc etc etc... I also did my medical test and was found to be perfectly NORMAL in the report by the doctors of a renowned institute in Mumbai (Kokilaben Hospital In mumbai). What more proof did she wanted but alas they had to get separated at any cost so they forged another story now of dowry. What one says now... salute to this country's law and section 498 which made in favour of women goes against innocent guys like us...
well law may favour the truth but ultimately it is the supreme power the power of karma does work and though whatever happened, i really never wanted as i loved meenal from the bottom of my heart. i still dont understand what she got after dissolving this marriage,, some money some alimony some independence but i would really like to ask their family some questions......
Q.1 Did u got happiness after the separation ?
Q.2 Will this happiness be there forever with your family ?
Q.3 By showing to your family and friends about the separation, have u gained any respect ?
Q.4 Whatever money you received, are u satisfied with this money ?
Money comes and goes but as they say people are very much materialistic in today's world,, nothing sees to them beyond money.. Time and Space are there and they wait for none... Its said... its the law of karma,,, whatever money once earns not with his sweat but by forcefully, one can never digest it .... however, i pray to my dear lord the divine consciousness to give them knowledge and intelligence.
What Happened to me after the incident was i realized my inner core powers, joining with Art of Living and having more interest in spirituality really helped me in overcoming the tough situation of life and made me realized from inside that happiness lies within us and no one else...
Souls come and souls go.. we all gonna die one day... and we will only take 2 things with us...How much love we spread and how much knowledge we gathered... so why be too much materialistic....some souls come to teach us and realize us our own inner faculties of powers.... i thank them for making me what i am today......
I know my time will come and i will have a wonderful family with me.... :) :)
I am back on my writing and sitting on desk reviewing the year gone by. Give me shivers down the spine as I review the year gone by.... i had left the last writing on the note is it the end of 4th love story or the beginning of the eternal love story....
I believe love is eternal.. we all are made up of love.. the mother's love for her child, the dog's love for her master... similarly this entire creation is made of love....
when we are in love , all we can see is love everywhere.... these feelings of angerness, jealousy, greed etc are not a part of us... thats what i realized in the past year gone by... with both ups and downs and made me strong from inside and tested my skills how can i come out of any bad situations....
Well the story continues from there.... I got married on 29th april,2015 with Meenal Thakur (Though 3 days to go for the marriage, i was still unsure whether i had made the right decision or not ). I was never close to this lady ever neither emotionally nor in anyway else.. i always felt that i am doing some sort of compromise in my life with this girl as her family always used to pressurize us emotionally and their demands never finished..... i never thought i knew either the girl or thier family till the marriage which was the biggest wrong decision i had made in my life.. i should have known the girl and the family background before making any decision of my life.
It affected my life and parents life.. everyone's life but brought with it many positive lessons and my own unknown capabilities that i was not confident of earlier. In a way, made me more confident. many people would surrender to the situation but somewhere deep inside me i never gave up. These people and situations come in life to teach us a lesson and to have a more of a broad vision than narrow mindedness.
Within 3 months of marriage, the girl and her family had started pressurizing me and my family to have a kid and after every sessions be it at the honeymoon or at home, the girl always used to tell her mother what happened. I feel the main reason for dissolvement of my marriage was her mother. If she had been supportive mother in law, she would have never gone against the marriage.
All the material comforts and emotionally stability was given to Meenal, but she on the footsteps of her mother, used to have just one thing on her mind, that she wants to have children.I always used to feel pressurized due to which never used to enjoy the sessions and used to blame me that i am impotent. (Though she herself was a doctor and without any fact finding and knowledge publically informed everyone like this ). A doctor cum wife should always support her husband and give time as it is not like a photostat machine that we have put paper here and the result is instaneously. I believe this is natural process which one should enjoy and while enjoying one can have it not forcefully have it starting from day 1 of our night.
Well as u must be reading above, my marriage ultimately dissolved and what started afterthat was a serial full of drama, blamegames, high tones, police, court cases etc etc etc... I also did my medical test and was found to be perfectly NORMAL in the report by the doctors of a renowned institute in Mumbai (Kokilaben Hospital In mumbai). What more proof did she wanted but alas they had to get separated at any cost so they forged another story now of dowry. What one says now... salute to this country's law and section 498 which made in favour of women goes against innocent guys like us...
well law may favour the truth but ultimately it is the supreme power the power of karma does work and though whatever happened, i really never wanted as i loved meenal from the bottom of my heart. i still dont understand what she got after dissolving this marriage,, some money some alimony some independence but i would really like to ask their family some questions......
Q.1 Did u got happiness after the separation ?
Q.2 Will this happiness be there forever with your family ?
Q.3 By showing to your family and friends about the separation, have u gained any respect ?
Q.4 Whatever money you received, are u satisfied with this money ?
Money comes and goes but as they say people are very much materialistic in today's world,, nothing sees to them beyond money.. Time and Space are there and they wait for none... Its said... its the law of karma,,, whatever money once earns not with his sweat but by forcefully, one can never digest it .... however, i pray to my dear lord the divine consciousness to give them knowledge and intelligence.
What Happened to me after the incident was i realized my inner core powers, joining with Art of Living and having more interest in spirituality really helped me in overcoming the tough situation of life and made me realized from inside that happiness lies within us and no one else...
Souls come and souls go.. we all gonna die one day... and we will only take 2 things with us...How much love we spread and how much knowledge we gathered... so why be too much materialistic....some souls come to teach us and realize us our own inner faculties of powers.... i thank them for making me what i am today......
I know my time will come and i will have a wonderful family with me.... :) :)
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